Freshman Retreat: Mustard Seed

The SMCHS Retreat Team is committed to making retreat accessible to all students, regardless of any financial situation. In order to support that vision, we have the following options in place :

1.    Delaying the retreat payment due date to a time in the school year that works better for a family’s budget.

2.    Payment plans that can spread across any time period that works best for a family. You tell us when payments should begin & we will work with the Business Office to set that up in your FACTS account.

3.    A Partial Scholarship that can also be paired with a delayed retreat payment due date or payment plan.

4.    Full Scholarship.

If one of these options would allow your student to attend Freshman Retreat, please reach out to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org to discuss further.

We are happy to offer refunds up until 9:00 AM the morning that we depart on a Freshman Retreat. In order to move forward with a refund, an email from a parent must be sent to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org. We are not able to process refunds requested by Freshmen without a parent email.

Please email Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org to inquire about if spots are still available for the Freshman Retreat you would like to attend. We are only able to take late adds up to 1 week prior to the departure date. If there are spots open & if the request is made within the above time frame, we are happy to accommodate!

If the retreat is full, you will be placed on a waitlist & notified if an opening becomes available.

Please email Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org to get on the waitlist for a sold out Freshman Retreat. You will be notified if a spot opens up.

We only allow Freshmen to attend Freshman Retreat once as a retreatant. Both Freshman Retreats are exactly the same, so you would essentially be paying twice to attend something you already experienced. We also want to ensure as many Freshmen as possible are able to make a retreat, so our registration spots are reserved for those that have not yet attended.

No! Freshman Retreat is designed in such a way that anyone from any faith background can get something out of the retreat. As a Catholic school committed to our Catholic identity, the retreat does have Catholic components such as Mass, Adoration & Confession. However, those practices are not exclusive for just Catholics to participate in. All SM Freshmen are encouraged & welcome to make a retreat their Freshman Year!

Busses will take the Freshman to & from the retreat center from SM's campus. Parents will be responsible for getting their student to SM in the morning & picking their student up from SM in the evening.

Unless there is an emergency of some kind, parents will not be permitted to drop off or pick up their student from the retreat center.

Freshmen must be at school by 8 AM on the day of each Freshman Retreat, regardless of the bell schedule for the day. This means that even if the rest of the school has a late start & does not need to be on campus until 9 AM, we will still need those signed up for the retreat to be on campus by 8 AM.

We will be leaving SM promptly at 8:30 AM & we need to ensure there is enough time to check everyone in & load the busses. Details on exactly where to go for check in for each retreat will be sent in subsequent Parent Emails that will be sent after you register your student for the retreat. 

We will be leaving the retreat center at 7PM & will arrive back to campus around 7:30 PM. Details on exactly where pick up will be located & how it will work will be sent in subsequent Parent Emails that will be sent after you register your student for the retreat. 

Since we do not arrive back to campus until about 7:30 PM, Freshmen will miss any sports practices or extracurriculars they would normally attend directly after school.

The main reason we offer four different retreat dates is to accommodate as many schedules as possible. When deciding which retreat you would like to attend, please look over your sports practice & extracurricular schedules & choose a retreat that does not get in the way of your other commitments. For help in picking the best Freshman Retreat for your schedule, please email Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org. 

Because Freshmen Retreat is only one day & because we offer four different retreat dates, we do not allow retreatants to come to the retreat late or leave early.

If you have questions about this policy or would like to discuss a specific circumstance, please reach out to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org.

Yes! Irvine Ranch Outdoor Education Center can accommodate dietary restrictions.  

If you would feel more comfortable bringing your own food, we are also more than happy to accommodate that!

We do not, under any circumstance, allow retreatants or parents to pick who is in a Freshman Retreat small group. Each Freshman Retreat Team spends a great deal of time creating small groups that are intentional & will allow retreatants the opportunity to open up as much as they desire. We take the creation of Freshman Retreat small groups very seriously & make decisions that are rooted in prayer & what is best for each retreatant.

The only outside information we will accept from retreatants or parents is if certain retreatants should NOT be paired together. If there is a dynamic between two retreatants that you would like to make us aware of, please reach out to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org.

You do not! We take of that part for you by sending a list of all retreatants to our attendance office. The day of the retreat will be marked as “Excused” in Aeries & does not need to be confirmed by a parent.

All SMCHS Retreats are considered Excused Absences. This means that students will not be penalized in any way for stepping away from campus to attend a retreat. Students are given ample time to make up any work or assessments that are missed while on retreat. Our Retreat Team works closely with faculty, coaches & counselors to ensure that students are preparing ahead of time for what they will be missing, & are not completely overwhelmed with makeup work upon their return to campus.

Freshmen are encouraged to look at their class, sport & extracurricular schedules when picking which Freshman Retreat they would like to attend. For help in discerning which Freshman Retreat would work best for your schedule, please reach out to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org.

To learn more about our school wide absence & make up work policy, please consult the SMCHS Parent Student Handbook.

This may be one of the few times a student hears this, but you are not allowed to work on school work during Freshman Retreat! Freshman Retreat is meant to give Freshmen a break from the busyness of their lives. Their only job on Freshman Retreat is to be present & to focus on growing their relationships with the Lord, each other & themselves. There is a time & place for school work, but it is not on Freshman Retreat.

Years of Freshman Retreats, where cell phones were allowed, proved one thing very clearly: Freshmen cannot enter into the Freshman Retreat experience in a meaningful & complete way, if cell phones are also present. It is impossible to fully “retreat” from the hustle & bustle of campus, if students have a device in their pocket that brings them right back to all of it with the click of a button. 

In order to protect the Freshman Retreat experience & give retreatants the best chance at being present to all the Lord wants to do for them on this retreat, we do not allow cell phones. 

Cell phones are collected as students are exiting the busses at the retreat center. This means that, in the event of an emergency, we are able to give cell phones back because they are up at the retreat site with us. If you have questions about the cell phone policy on Freshman Retreat, please reach out to Tori Cutcher at cutchert@smhs.org.